Contentment as a feeling is somewhat alien to me. The feeling of “this is nice” is usually tied to some other emotion like a need for me to do something to maintain that state like when I’m running a Scout event or hosting a get together. It’s something I experience rarely and only with a select group of people and the last four days have probably been the longest stretch of it that I can remember outside of the blissful simplicity of childhood. Our memory usually on remembers peaks and the end rather than averages and I suppose in this regard I am lucky. I crave that vast middle of experience and can remember it.

Over dinner on Saturday, the server asked how we were and I gave my standard response of a slightly loud, slightly excited “ok”. A dinner companion glared at me and said “after today you can only muster an ‘ok’?” She was right in her joking indignation. My emotional half-life from peaks seems to be faster than most but a slightly longer lingering period. In 2009, Pat, Joe, and I took a camping to Acadia National Park that I still ruminate on fondly. While considering it, I will have a notable improvement in my mood assuming I can prevent myself from falling into the trap of “so why haven’t you done it again?” and I remember both the interesting bits like meeting CJ and the more quotidian aspects of lounging in the campsite. This extended weekend provided me with about a dozen of those memory touchstones. I’m curious which I will often call upon and which will fall away.

We slept in a bit and Mike and Kacey basked in mutual adorability followed by lunch at Perkins and then the beach.  Cocoa Beach is immediately east of Orlando and one of the nicest plain beaches along the Florida east coast.  It’s where families go to the beach and I presumed that I’d be able to find a stunt kite here.  Along the Jersey coast every beach has one to two kite shops or at least shops that sell two line stunt kites but Florida does not yield kites so easily.  The closest store I could find was 30 miles south on A1A which translated to a 45 minute drive each way.  Suzie and I found the kite store, I got a stunt kite, she got a Batman kite, and we returned to Cocoa Beach.

Reflections
 
I like beaches mostly as places that are bright and windy. I haven’t swam in the ocean without scuba gear for well over a decade and today I did not break that streak. The wind was wonderful and I remembered more about stunt kiting than I thought I would. For the next two hours I was lost in wind and sky.

I Like My Kite

I wasn’t able to get the kite to do multiple loops which involves pulling fast enough that the kite’s momentum helps maintain a spin while the lines are crossed but I only crashed twice. Everyone else had a hand at it with more or less success. Suzie’s Bat Kite broke from its line and became a bit of a rat’s nest when ultimately recovered. As is her way, she gave it a swift death rather than letting it linger.

Wreckage

Mike buried himself.

Alarm

The few hours at the beach were nice. Back at the hotel, there was a crocodile in a pond below the pool area and some English major said “I just like to sit and consider the mind of the crocodile”. My normal response would be “don’t anthropomorphize animals, they hate that” but rage welled up faster than wit. Animals are not humans and at no point should we forget that. They do not have conscious processes in the same way that we do and much of what they do could be described as simple equilibrium seeking. So say that they hate, love, think, etc is a disservice to both their and our uniqueness. Sure, you can argue that this is a short-hand, but I say it’s not a useful one.

I stomped around a bit and then we got changed for dinner.
Group Duck Face

Dinner that evening was at Mitchell’s Fish Market and it proved delicious.
First Salmon
This was my first go at salmon that didn’t come out of a bag. It didn’t taste like it came from a bag unless the bag were possibly gold or maybe like satin or something. The wilted spinach was also quite good and this is a trick I plan on stealing. Kacey’s friends were nice and as the evening wound down we started hatching plans to run into each other again. I’d say that is a sign of a good first meeting.

Suzie and I wanted to meet Mike and Kacey in Orlando for dinner but the roads were moving slower than we wished so where I could I drove quickly.  About 110 miles out, I was pulled over for speeding.

Officer: Why were you going so fast?
Me: We’re trying to make a friend’s Masters dissertation in Orlando this evening.
Officer: Where are you from?
Me: PA.
Officer: And you’re driving?
Me: Yes.
Officer: *pause* *returns to police car* *returns to my car* Sir, please get out of the car.
*We walk to behind my car*
Officer: She yours?
Me: Mine?
Officer: Yours.
Me: Sure?
Officer: Ok, please drive slower.  You want to make it to Florida in one piece.

We made Orlando in time to take a night time tour of a cemetery.  The guide mentioned that it was the only cemetery in Orlando County and then did so again every five sentences.  The tour ended, thankfully, and we returned to the hotel for a proper night’s rest.